why the victim is treated as accused?page3

I lost every thing me and my daughter is going through big time mental trauma I was only earning member we have no male by our side I lost my job just because of these animals who pretend they are human. I was with the guy for 3years so why law allows to get past record why not only that 3years if law says there would be no value of past things and those years will be only counted when the incident was held I think no one will waste there time in grabbing the history of the girl isn’t it in these kind of cases there should be investigation I don't deny but police should see what is important and what not like in my case I don't think that was a big crime if I would have been into any ill legal things I would have taken and agreed but that never harmed anyone so why hand over the records which can create more complications. I was respectfully doing my job and made my name these people have made my life miserable to fight against domestic violence I am fighting with my life now. What I got in return exploitation, insult and end of my daughter and my future. If these things are happening when the guy is in jail and if he gets bail and he is out what all will happen don’t know.
Can I get back the name respect n those 3years what all I have lost for them those years were fun but for me it was so important they exploited me and took great advantage investigate his and whole family history I am very sure lot will come out. He and his family have twisted my life horrible and I am entitle as prostitute do you think any graceful guy will wed my daughter? Who will get us foodstuff as I not working now those people sending threat for us to withdraw the case. I wanted to make them realize I am not from those girls who will sit a cry and forgive its not easy to cheat and play with anyone emotions even they have to suffer that will be a lesson so that in future this family never repeat this.
I was honest about this guy he was single but accepted me with a matter-of-factness but after 3years they wounded me took advantage of me PYSICALLY, MENTALLY, EMOTIONALLY and most important FINANCIALLY when he approached me to be his other half there was no flag on him for me to know that he was unmarried, as his parents are revealing to the people that the girl took lead of my innocent son. I have all the evidence which confirm in details. I could not accept as true that we have elder people also who can encourage there son in filthy tricks I complaint in police to save other women even my daughter could become target to these kind of cheaters but after all that, I got all the more exploited We both had been through traumatic experience just because of that family. Was it to prove the rape or digging history of mine when we were together no1 is bothered its only they are bothered for my life history I don't get a chance to speak in the courtyard but if I get I can reveal lot many things from the day1.Police should have helped me in getting more evidence but things are so different out side the court, the guy have whole family, friends and relatives to support and can run here and there to know about me, but what, where and how can I handle things all by myself.
I’m a passionate one about life but the guy and his family they have gotten me to the point of being suicidal and only thing that cease me is my daughter. My only sin was that I valued them loved them and been supportive to them and accepted their arrogance, ignorance and attitude towards me. In return they gave me and my daughter complicatedness and sorrow they operated me as an ATM CARD whenever they required cash they knew which button to press they are desperate and desperate community are the most corrupt they are curse to family and others who take advantage in manipulating and ruining others life. They have bought me to death bed and that barefaced family is still wid there tantrums on me and no guilt, We both had enough of pain in the past but our future where is it? We are treated wrongly. Whom to blame Law, my ill fortune, or the family? for me those 3years which I have lost due to him and his family ,I am sure you could imagine what me and my daughter must be going through.
1nd >>>I have a child. I feel blessed but, the family whom I had faith in felt embarrassment after 3years.
2nd>>>>my earlier error. Which guy knew but, they took lead to talk about my personality to make sure he is spotless.
What did I achieve? Why only we undergo nervous tension? Or is it to destroy us
Ruins us so much that they get rid of the case.
IS this a good judgment?
I am shattered totally I cant take so much of pain it is a torture when I have guts 2 stand and fight against the family not thinking what all I will have to face I have guts to take the case back still don't know what all I will have 2face but cant be worst then now