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Will that case not leave me in future which no1 knows what was the reason and circumstances when no one knows the reality how they are allowed to use abusive words may be the fact behind is something else anyways I cant go an give explanation to each and every person I think I should stop thinking about my daughter future.
I have the evidence but few which police purposely did not add saying its not important but for me every bit was important to show. Even guy had a case on him before that also was done by girls and that was when we were together they could get my past revealed and giving importance to it and insulting me to the core where whole public is watching and listening 3years I was with the guy those years are not getting investigated but only digging my life story and his case was in-between those 3years when he was with me and was pretending as my better half .I have the evidence which proves he knew about me.100 of lies is spoken by guy family and his legal representative which is hurting me to the core I am not a terrorist not a drug addict not a hard core criminal I haven’t cheated anyone nor hurt anyone then why am I treated as accused that means nothing is important in this case only my past history and uncovering me with abusive language in public is very important isn’t it.
 I have no1 except my daughter the accused knew everything about me as I did not hide anything from him I never wanted to start my life with any lies he was the one who use to tell my daughter to call him dad but now to show the world that he is innocent and clean he got a chance to finger on my character. It has effected my reputation, my life, my job, my daughter and her future it’s not a justice to us. Moreover I haven't done anything which is cheating or hurting anyone there is a saying when a lie is spoken but its not cheating or hurting anyone and its said only for some kind of purpose I don't think that is a crime if I had error in my past and error are not related to my this case for any reason then why only my past history is getting revealed in front of whole world can you all imagine what me and my daughter must be going through and what all I have to face in the courtyard with so many people around which graceful guy will marry my daughter which has nothing to with all this even the police is in favour of the guy from the day one I am facing so much of torture and harassments from police from the family. The guy is in jail but his relatives and family had been going to my friends place showing them the case of mine to prove guy is innocent and I was a bad character women then why passing messages through them to withdraw the case. I am a victim but I am treated as accused we have no1 its just me and my daughter that doesn’t mean anyone can torture or give mental stress so much anyone can go mad. I am not able to take all this anymore if I was aware that I am going to be in so much of pain or if I was aware its all going to effect my and my daughter future I would have never registered the case I am totally shattered the police had acted so smart I know what is going on because its just me who is facing all this but for future I wants to pass a msg for all the women it isn’t easy to fight against anyone who had harmed you its a big time mental trauma I don’t think any other girl should ever think about it u have error or not it doesn’t matter for sure you will be treated as accused even I can bribe anyone but I know I haven’t done anything wrong neither it is a false case this whole family had had destroyed and poisoned my life I have been through hard times in my past I wasn’t aware that fighting against the guy will bring more errors in my future. The judges are not aware what is going on outside there court I am not able to take more pain because its effecting my daughter future I will have to take the case back they were just with me for money and nothing more as I zipped my bag they showed there true colour. No one is perfect inn this world, who doesn’t have problems in life, who doesn’t tell lies but it’s only that family who is overall perfect.
I was working and having very deferential image my daughter is grown up girl and understands everything and trusts me a lot as her statement in this case is important because she had been with me through out when this guy and his family was visiting us everyday and was just using there dangerous tricks on us.