why the victim is treated as accused?“Fix the problem, not the blame.”page01

Past destroyed our future
Whom do I blame? >>mine and my daughter life got exploited.
I am victim in a rape case as in now the guy is in jail from last 2months I got case registered because to teach them a lesson so that no other girl become target to them after 3years they dumped me just because I had a daughter ,my religion and against my job initially they accepted me with my daughter guy use to be visit me at my work place I was clearing all his bills every time by that time my job was perfect for them but as I sealed my pocket they had no interest in me and had so many excuses to avoid me they even said my son is not prepared for marriage yet its not only you but he will not marry anyone but the truth was something else side by side they were looking for a next target I don't understand if his parents were aware of there son habits of changing girls every year being parents how could they let me be a target to him me in relationship with there son who wanted me to his wife and he use to stay back at my place we have been out of town informing his parents and talking to them on phone I don't think that they were so innocent that they must have assumed that we will be taking 2seperate rooms and when he use to stay back at my place still they were assuming we must be in different rooms when I use to get bit busy with my work and missed calling them in a day his parents use to drop in at my place in odd time and cry so much telling me we were missing you so much and did not hear your voice and every time they had these words don't ever leave our son as he had been kicked by two girls before in past and they have hurt our son can you believe when this kind of drama was going on no one can ever think what was behind all this why the investigation is not done proper like call details ,the hotel record where we stayed my work place his friends where we went together for his friend wedding the ring which he gave me in presence of parents and my daughter as engagement ring and earrings there are hundred of things I have few things and that family blaming me for the planning just because I have few things which they think I have been saving tell me one things who doesn’t save pictures ,love letters when you know that is your family . the things what they did to me was preplanned because they never took cheques only cash, they slowly removed few things from my house, from my laptop and get that person who use to come at my place to collect his car instalment and many other things he started saying his outgoing calls are barred and many excuses so it was only me who use to call so he got chance to say I was after him and I use to force him to come dangerous master mind I was such a fool still was not using my mind he use to carry food from my house to his office everyday and now they are saying I use to do< black magic> oh god well educated people can ever think all this and before they said I was using some drug in the food, his office staff use to share the food why not investigate because of family I was hospitalized why not go to the hospital and talk to doctors because I was in a shock and mental trauma just because I could not take that shock and the counselling was done and due to so much of stress I spoke everything to the doctor and the guy was present there and the doctor spoke to him as well there also he said same what all he was saying to me and promised that he will take care of me but what police telling me those things are not important and saying the guy has to prove that he was never with you and raped you so you should sit and relax but why if the guy and family telling 100 of leven I have to prove and reveal the facts isn’t it. The main point of the case is did he promise me for marriage or not did he rape me or not so these things are too important for me they said they have only met me once so my call record can show now I have few evidence with me against those people There was a case against me 7years back for immoral trafficking the case is still on trial as I have seen hard time in my past .I was a working women and my daughter is studying we live together as in now the case against a guy I am a victim and when ever there is a bail application applied for the guy I have to listen too abusive language in a courtyard from accused side and too much of insult in front of my daughter I guess you can well understand taking abusive language before your own child what would be a feeling I am downhearted.
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Is it that big a crime? Is it bigger then what this guy had done with me? If it is yes then I should be thrown behind the bar why he isn’t it.