A PLEAD OF A FATHER

My name is Mohamed Arif.

I was adopted into a beautiful Muslim family, who have taught me the right value system of life and gave me the empowerment to build a life of my own choices using my own mind and more importantly they have taught me how to respect life around us in various forms.

I am here to write about basic rights of Fatherhood, something I am denied of and I am not OK with that. This is the most basic of all things and should not be deprived off on any grounds.
I am writing on behalf of all the other Fathers who have been denied their Fatherhood, just because, the couple went through a Divorce.

I have been denied my Fatherhood to my son and I am not OK with that, our judiciary system favours women and I am OK with that because, some of our women in this country really need that kind of protection but there are some women who take 100% advantage of that only to quench their own ego and I am not OK with that. Especially if the woman is a local celebrity - a radio jockey.

Men don’t have a womb to carry the Fetus but that is not a ground to take our feelings and emotions for granted. Probably, we have our Wombs in our minds because, we not only carry the Fetus, but we also carry the Woman in our Minds all time from the moment she is Pregnant to the time she delivers and much beyond!

I am not only writing this for myself, but I am also writing this letter more on behalf of my son because where will a 4-year-old run to when he gets alienated from one of his parent? To which police station will he run to lodge a complaint? To which court’s door will he knock and write a petition to be with his Father?

How easy it is for a celebrity to wear a fake mask and preach the preaching ON AIR and win the world?
How difficult it is for a common man to show the worth of his tears?
Why does a common man need to prove his sorrow and agony just to be with his little Son?
How easy it is for the former to have a pretty face behind the ugly truth and why so difficult for the latter to have a genuine face of life that can smile.

A Divorce is absolutely OK and happens between a husband and a wife but never between a father and a mother to a child.

Why Alienate the Child? Why deprive him too? Which mask will he wear? What truths of life will he learn? Is this maturity? Is he growing up understanding the truths and facts of life? Or, facing the brunt of brutality? Why can’t everybody be happy? Discuss issues with wisdom and understanding. What is the fight about? With whom are you fighting against? You ex? Or his religion? Or your ego?

All I want is, to see him, feel him, touch him, kiss him, hug him, smell him and spend some time with him. I am not even fighting for anything, all I want, all I seek, all I long for, all I plead, all I beg is to be in touch with my son.

All I want to give is that one thing that I never got - 'A FATHERHOOD'.

I am his FATHER!

PLEASE SIGN THE PETITION IF YOU;

IF YOU THINK EVERY FATHER DESERVES TO EXPERIENCE FATHERHOOD.
IF YOU THINK EVERY CHILD DESERVES A FATHER’S LOVE.

Signing this off as voice of all the Fathers & Mothers & Children who have been alienated.

#saynotoalienation
#everychilddeservesafather
#everychilddeservesamother
#iloveyouaryan
#imissyou
#papawillcomeforyou
#holdon
#staystrong